Be happy!!

You realize kids are always so happy? They seem to have no worries, no pain. But as we grow, the child in us is lost, and we don't seem to be as happy as before no more.

Some say it is because we have more problems. But, if you say this: ' When I have fewer problems, I'll be happy ', and wait for your live to get better, IT GETS WORSE. Maybe you have noticed that people who seem to get the most out of life have often had it tough. But they are happy because at some point they decided 'HAPPY' is the only way to live. I've been through this, I know. You have to decide to be happy to be happy. Damn. i've got tons of problems flying at me when I open the doors to my house, but hey, I can still be happy. It's not what happens to you that determine your happiness. It's how you think about what happens to you.

Happiness doesn't just happen to you like some accident. It is something you choose. Sometimes, I feel kids, they are smarter then us. They choose the path to be happy. Or maybe because they are naive. They forgive and forget quicker than us. We compare too much, I do too. But, it doesn't help. It makes it worse. I've learnt that,

the happiest people don't bother about whether life is fair; they just make the most out of it. Look at my family, ppl, you can take 10years and not find the word fair in it. But i dont give a damn. :)
Assume that every problem in your life is a lesson to make you stronger, and then you will never feel like a victim.

You don't find happiness in absence of problems. You find it in spite of your problems.

:)

*credits to cute little boy who inspired me to write this and andrew mattews quotations.

- wise mushroom. dong leads a happy life, credits to

solefactory.