LOVE

There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing the love we feel. For fear of embarrassing the other person, or ourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words "I love you."
So we try to communicate the idea in other words.

We say take care or don't drive too fast or be good. But really, these are just other ways of saying I love you. You are important to me. I care what happens to you. I don't want you to get hurt.We are sometimes very strange people. The only thing we want to say, and the one thing that we should say, is the one thing we don't say. And yet because the feeling is so real, and the need to say it is so strong, we are driven to use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted.Therefore, we have to listen for love in the words that people are saying to us. Sometimes the explicit words are necessary, but more often, the manner of saying things is even more important.A joyous insult carries more affection and love within the sentiments, which are expressed insincerely. An impulsive hug says I LOVE YOU even though the words might be saying very different.

Any expression of a person's concern for another says I love you. Sometimes the expression is clumsy, sometimes even cruel. Sometimes we must look and listen very intently for the love that it contains.But it is often there, beneath the surface.

You are important to me.We say I love you in many ways. With gifts and little notes, with smiles and sometimes with tears. Sometimes we show our love by just keeping quiet and not saying a word, at other times by speaking out, even brusquely. We show our love sometimes by impulsiveness. Many times we have to show our love by forgiving someone who has not listened to the love we have tried to express.

The problem in listening for love is that we don't always understand the language of love, which the other person is using.The problem with our world is that people rarely listen to each other. They hear the words, but they don't listen to the actions that accompany the words or the expression on the face. Or people listen only for rejection or misunderstanding.They do not see the love that is there just beneath the surface, even if the words are angry.It is a terrifying picture of our modern world, a world without communication and without love. We have to listen for love in those around us. If we listen intently we will discover that we are a lot more loved than we realize. Listen for love and we will find that the world is a very loving place, after all.

People say true friends must always hold hands, but true friends don't have to hold hands because they know the other hand will always be there.


mushroom:
AFTER POSTING, i want to say: "I LOVE YOU!!" but i am sorry, u guys cant hear me :(
eh, someone update on the tues thing? haha.

SOLE FACTORY!

sth interesting..

OH..
i just remembered sth. i must say!. our tagboard.. JANE said hello so many times rite?
u know why?
she copied the link from solefactory to her littleappletree blog. and so, she tested it.
STUPID! haha.
oh, tues. where we come!


mushroom says:"bye!"

e post

i blog now aft so longgg! wow.

wana thanks jo n pet for buyin e Donut Factory for me too! im so touched, seriously. aft sometins went all wrg some time ago. definitely. i noe its my fault. i dun noe if e gap wld ever b mended. bud i wld lik to let e SoleFactory co-workers noe tat, no matter how otherwise my attitude n actions showed, i love you gals.

Joy

donut day

i met with jo at the mrt before heading to shop/window shop.it was quite sad coz there were some stuff which we liked.but we have no cash.as in we are both really dried up.at first, we decided to walk past topshop.but joanna told me bout the cardigan sale and since i could not resist it.we went inside.thankfully, we did not buy.its ugly la.lol.joanna has the power to influence pple.haha.we also saw a girl wearin bright PINK stockings and its freakin bright pink.it's really pretty horrible.haha.followin which, we went to the donut factory and there was a looong queue.still, i am thankful we did not reach later.if not, the queue would have been longer.we spent time by playin ds(not really tt much) and sweet joanna was e one queuing like the entire time coz i was like mainly spendin my time walkin around, buying stuff for us to eat.coz i really cannot just stand there la.i am tired and lazy as usual.haha.so like finally, we reached the front and bought our donuts.i was like scared tt the train will be packed causin our donuts to get crushed.but yeah,it was not really that packed.we passed the donuts to dear jane den we talked for a while bfore leaving.however, we both concluded tt we would not go again to queue as on an average, we gave the donuts like 60++ upon 100.lol.can try sp's donuts.it's nicer.thats wad me and jo feel.

to my fellow coworkers: see yr next tue and i miss you all!haha
petrinapetrina :)

BOO!

here i come. i shall update this blog. i cannot be selfish to keep blogging my own blog. hahaha. okay let's reminisce. :)

remember the times.....


during geography lesson

when we have our 15 min break

lovely mrs fong

doing stupid things

when everyone sleeps:

during accounts





in class

when we get A for cleanliness

when we are late for class

when jane teaches :)

when everyone charge their phones in class

when joanna kisses mr najeeb

when everyone is so obsessed with chess

OHHHHHHHH.....
i miss the times.


naughty elephant